1} Certain(lol) family members remind me 'Men like women with long hair'
2} I have broad shoulders (I'm not complaining, just stating facts) so I am afraid of looking like a linebacker with a tennis ball sized head by having a "bob haircut". And even though I am in the process of losing weight {51 pounds total loss since March, but I still have a LONG ways to go}...I don't want to look less feminine by having a short hair-do(sp?).
3} I sometimes feel like when I smile I resemble a chipmunk with nuts stuffed in the sides of her cheeks. So maybe a short haircut would just broaden my already "full" cheeks instead of flatter.

I told myself at 50pds I could get my hair done as like a "reward". I just don't want to look like one of those girls that should not have short hair b/c it doesn't compliment them. You know? I want to look feminine and still have something trendy going on w/ my hair. And not to mention, I AM getting older, so I can't be all brave about just going and cutting off/coloring my hair like in HS. I mean my thought process then was 'eh, it's just hair, it will grow back/can be dyed' but NOW, my thought is I have to live with this haircut UNTIL it grows back and I dont want to look like a 26 yr old trying to be 18 again....
Ok, so here's the breakdown I have a hair appointment at 7p and I need a hairstyle that I can work with...When my 50 mark was approaching I was considering these cuts:


They make me laugh too, b/c Melissa everytime she see's these haircuts says that if I got them they would stress her out b/c she would want to snip the "stragly" ends that just appear uneven rather than groomed. HAHA!
Anyways, my mom and I went to see the movie "I can do bad all by myself" this past weekend. And the main characters hair was really cute. I think I prefer it to the above one. I actually wouldn't be going this short, mine would kinda be closer to my collar bone:


Soooo what do ya'll think I should do? Cancel or seize the day?!












